"flowers" is definitely a subject line
2026-05-22 11:08 pm♥ It seems I have an Easter cactus. One of my neighbors was getting rid of an unidentified succulent last year and offered it to me (somewhat apologetically, she thought it looked terrible) so I poured a bunch of water over it and left it on the back porch for a few months until winter came, then I brought it in and put it under a light. This week it started to bloom.
♥ The gardens are starting to look like something and I spent almost two hours watering today, so I definitely do not need any more plants, which is why we're only going to one plant sale this weekend. I think last year's intensive watering effort is paying off: some of the things that hadn't grown in years are bigger, and some of the things I thought were goners are cheerfully waving their hopeful little leaves in the air.
♥ Since January, I've been taking some herbal stuff for focus and cognitive function, and I feel like it's significantly improved my ability to remember, focus on, and complete tasks. A few days ago I found some detailed to-do lists from last summer that made me realize my executive function has improved much more than I realized. It was surprising to find such solid evidence of change.
♥ evildea has shared his first 50-hour update from the lingopie challenge. He started about two weeks ahead of me and he remains about two weeks ahead of me. This is very motivating to me, since I feel like we're starting with similar Chinese levels. So it's like that t-shirt one of my basketball-loving classmates used to wear in middle school:
"Somewhere someone is practicing while I'm stuck in school. One day I will meet him in head to head competition, and he will beat me."
Jia you.
Tiny Tots Splash Time at Sholem Aquatic Center
2026-05-23 01:54 amParents of babies and toddlers will want to know about this perfect outing for warm summer mornings at Sholem Aquatic Center
Nothing says summer more than a sweet morning splashing around with young children when the pool is open just for them
You can find families with young children at playgrounds, libraries, the mall and so many other places. No matter what time of year it is, anyone watching babies, toddlers and preschoolers will tell you how important it is to get OUT and do things in the morning to ensure that oh-so-precious nap time arrives just as it should after lunch time.
During the summer months in Champaign-Urbana, we have one more option to add to the list — tiny tots splash time at Sholem! We love Sholem Aquatic Center for about a dozen reasons and tiny tots splash time is just one of them.

Important Info
What: Tiny Tots Splash Time at Sholem Aquatic Center
Who: Ages 5 and under with parent/guardian
When: Monday – Friday 8:30 – 11:30 a.m.; Saturday – Sunday 8:30 – 10:45 a.m., except for a few days here and there (click on Tiny Tots Splash Time for specific dates)
How much: $5 (resident) per person; free for season pass holders. Children ages 2 and under are free with a paying adult.

Know Before You Go
Packing for a visit to tiny tots time is just like a visit to the pool during any other hours. The only difference is that you will spend your entire visit in the fenced-in kiddie pool. Approved swim diapers are required for all children that wear diapers. The other areas at Sholem are being used in different ways (or not open) during this time.
You may want to confirm everything is still on before you go, as this can get canceled sometimes if the weather is not cooperating. You can check the Champaign Park District Rainout Line or sometimes find info on the Sholem Facebook page.
The kiddie pool at Sholem is a very shallow splash pool with some water spray features and an adorable turtle slide (shown below) in the middle. Children can safely maneuver up the stairs and down the slide and walk or crawl around under the watchful eyes of their parent and the Sholem lifeguards on duty.
It is worth noting that the concession stand is not open during tot swim hours, so pack those snacks and plenty of water before you leave home.

Final thoughts
If you hold a Sholem season pass and are planning on staying for open swim when it opens for pass holders, you will have to pack up when tiny tots swim wraps up, exit Sholem Aquatic Center and re-enter when swim time begins.
Whether you go to splash time just once or twice a summer or you make it a regular part of your summer routine, you’ll definitely meet other adults you have something in common with — a great part of any great baby/toddler outing — and your child is going to have a fun time, too. It definitely checks the box of ensuring you have a quiet rest of the day while your little recoups from all that fresh air and splish-splash fun!
Looking for more to do with babies and toddlers in Champaign-Urbana? We have ideas for you here.
Get ready for summer in Champaign-Urbana:
- Splash Pads Around Champaign-Urbana
- 50+ Ways to Have Summer Fun on a Budget In and Around Champaign-Urbana
- Summer Fun for Families in Champaign-Urbana
- Champaign-Urbana Area Swimming Pools
- Champaign-Urbana Area Summer Reading Programs
- Where to Watch Free and Cheap Outdoor Movies in Champaign-Urbana
- Visiting Champaign-Urbana Area Parks and Playgrounds with Families
- Strawberry Picking Near Champaign-Urbana
- Summer Fun in Chicago: Free Days at the Best Museums
- Champaign County Fair Preview
- Farmers Markets near Champaign-Urbana
- Champaign-Urbana Area Summer Fairs and Festivals
- Swim Teams in Champaign-Urbana
- Outdoor Concerts in Champaign-Urbana and Beyond
- Season Pool Passes On Sale in Champaign-Urbana
- Where to Take Swim Lessons in Champaign-Urbana
- Champaign-Urbana Summer Camps for Kids
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Splash Pads Around Champaign-Urbana
2026-05-23 01:44 amYour children can splash away the summer at Champaign-Urbana area splash pads
These free, water-based playgrounds (or spray-grounds) are open for family fun all summer long in Champaign, Urbana and surrounding communities
From Champaign to Mahomet, Rantoul to Bloomington, there are numerous splash pads that Champaign-Urbana area families can visit during summertime months. Some are newer than others, some have more bells and whistles, but all of them prove to be great for keeping cool and staying on a budget.

Favorite Splash Pads near Champaign-Urbana
Human Kinetics Park, Champaign
The newest splash pad in C-U is at Human Kinetics Park on the north side of Champaign. Runs 10 a.m. to 7 p.m., seven days a week, Memorial Day until Labor Day.

Barber Park, Mahomet
Mahomet’s Barber Park is sure to have lots of visitors this summer. The splash pad features a dumping bucket (!) and will be turned on from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. daily. There is also an inclusive playground that your kids will want to visit again and again.

Hessel Park, Champaign
Perhaps the most famous splash pad in Champaign-Urbana, Hessel Park has been there for far longer than this generation of today’s kids. The Champaign Park District property was updated in 2018 with new water features and many improvements. Runs 10 a.m. to 7 p.m., seven days a week, Memorial Day until Labor Day. It has a theme of bugs/critters and your kids are sure to find this adorable. A handful of nearby benches are available. The bathrooms, if you’ve not experienced them before, have the feel of pool bathrooms.
RELATED: Read our full review on the splash pad at Hessel Park.

Douglass Park, Champaign
Not as “famous” as Hessel Park but nearly equal in size and features, the Douglass Park splash pad is on the same block as the Douglass Branch Library and at the same park that features a real “fitness trail.” This splash pad is typically much less crowded than Hessel (the secret is out now!) and it is another great spot to set up camp for a couple hours while the kids play. Bathrooms are available at the community center (located on the same property). Runs 10 a.m. to 7 p.m., seven days a week, Memorial Day until Labor Day.

Rantoul Sports Complex
The splash pad at the Rantoul Sports Complex highlights sports-themed features and offers a great way for kids to cool down before, during or after a game at the adjacent sports complex. It is famous for turning on before Memorial Day (the only one on our list!)
You’ll find it running, weather-permitting, during summer days and special events. A mud-free playground also opened next to the splash pad, so you can really have a good time letting your kids burn off some summer energy here. Located right off the Rantoul exit from Interstate 57.

Miller Park, Bloomington
This splash pad is located outside Miller Park Zoo in Bloomington-Normal, just under an hour’s drive from the heart of Champaign-Urbana. Why do we think it is worth the drive? The abundance of water features, for starters! This splash pad is HUGE. We don’t have the specifics on square footage, but we can tell you it feels gigantic compared to the other splash pads on our list. Kids can aim the sprayers towards other kids running around the splash pad (or siblings, ahem) and get just as soaked as they would in a pool. So don’t skip the swimsuits if you’re coming to this destination. Note: We’ve been known to trek over with our littles JUST for the splash pad, without even venturing to the zoo located across the park from here. It is a trip in and of itself.

Homer Village Park
The park in downtown Homer is a lovely place to head with your kiddos to cool off in a shaded playground with a water play option. If you are looking for a quiet, small-town park feel, Homer is the splash pad for you. It is much smaller than the other options on this list, but that doesn’t mean it won’t be a welcome outing for your kids, especially younger ones.
Homer Lake Playscape
Want another water play option in Homer? Be sure to visit the natural playscape at Homer Lake. Not a splash pad, but another free option to get cooled off (pictured below).

Arcola: Moore Park
Opened in 2023, Arcola’s Moore Park now includes a splash pad.
Get ready for summer in Champaign-Urbana:
- Splash Pads Around Champaign-Urbana
- 50+ Ways to Have Summer Fun on a Budget In and Around Champaign-Urbana
- Summer Fun for Families in Champaign-Urbana
- Champaign-Urbana Area Swimming Pools
- Champaign-Urbana Area Summer Reading Programs
- Where to Watch Free and Cheap Outdoor Movies in Champaign-Urbana
- Visiting Champaign-Urbana Area Parks and Playgrounds with Families
- Strawberry Picking Near Champaign-Urbana
- Summer Fun in Chicago: Free Days at the Best Museums
- Champaign County Fair Preview
- Farmers Markets near Champaign-Urbana
- Champaign-Urbana Area Summer Fairs and Festivals
- Swim Teams in Champaign-Urbana
- Outdoor Concerts in Champaign-Urbana and Beyond
- Season Pool Passes On Sale in Champaign-Urbana
- Where to Take Swim Lessons in Champaign-Urbana
- Champaign-Urbana Summer Camps for Kids
The post Splash Pads Around Champaign-Urbana appeared first on ChambanaMoms.com.
This that and the other thingamagig
2026-05-22 08:44 pmMother is like a dog with a bone about my will. Every other month - she'll harp on it. Latest? Telling me horror stories about her friend's children who don't have wills.
( mother drives me crazy about the damn will )
As an aside? It's not like I haven't drawn one up yet or investigated it. ( Read more... )
As I attempted to explain to Mother - I only procrastinate about things I don't know what to do, or how to make them work. Also dealing with my brother makes me crazy.
Sigh. Hell is other people.
2. Should we be permitted to critique and analyze and/or review fanfiction (and/or fanworks)? Or is it understood to be off-limits by polite society?
There is an on-going argument about whether people should be "permitted" to critique and/or review fanfiction. And how fanfiction should be either protected, shielded, or off limits to any and all sorts of criticism. (ie. We much protect fanfic writers, who just want to have fun and not create anything of lasting impact or value.) - that's not quite a direct quote but close of a fan and former editor on Threads. [I'd tell you who - but I can't spell the name, or find it again. It's Threads.]
This begs the question? If criticism or reviews are off limits for fanfic, then are kudos or positive feedback off limits too? Should we just pretend it doesn't exist, and not respond to it at all? Or is only validation and supportive kudos permitted?
The latest spiel about how it should be off-limits to any and all sorts of criticism came once again from the Buffy fandom (do other fandoms do this? I presume so? But I'm not certain?) and it was on Threads. (This individual thought of themselves as old school fandom - since they went all the way back to the dark ages of 2007. I thought, no, hon, that's not old school fandom. Old school fandom is the 1960s with Star Trek and Doctor Who, before you could post a fic to over a million readers on the internet. Back then, they published it in fanzines handed out at conventions. (I found this out from Star Trek and Doctor Who fans.). And old school Buffy fandom goes back to the late 1990s and up to roughly 2004, when the show was airing living. You're not that old. (Not that old school fandom doesn't necessarily agree with your sentiment - the last argument I had on the topic was with someone twenty years older than me, and who dated back to the dark ages of fandom - 1960s Doctor Who.)
I flirted with responding and chose not to - it wouldn't end well. (Been there done that...back when I actually bothered to review and critique it. I don't do that any longer - either.) It never does end well. Note: Never argue with someone on Threads, Twitter, Bluesky or on social media who is in sermon mode or rant mode or on their holier than thou soap box - it won't end well. I have the battle scars to prove it.
But it is something I want to discuss? Preferably not with someone who feels strongly about it? (I don't read or critique fanfic any longer folks, I can't remember when I last critiqued or reviewed it? It was THAT long ago. And the folks whose fanfic I did critique? Are long gone from Dreamwidth and the fandom. So, even if I disagree with you? I'm hardly a threat.)
( Should critiques of Fan-fiction be Permitted Online? )
3. Barnes and Nobel announced it would sell AI Books. And the internet along with various co-workers have been debating whether they should boycott Barnes and Nobel. (Poor B&N, just when they had made a comeback and were seen as the golden child in comparison to evil Amazon. Although, I've got news for people - AI written books are most likely in Amazon, and various independent bookstores as well. They aren't that selective on the books they sell us.]
To be fair, that's not exactly what they said?
( Read more... )
[Cubicle aisle mate and I decided we weren't going to exactly boycott B&N, just not buy as many books there. We'd both started buying them again, because we'd learned we didn't own them on the kindle.
( Read more... )
I think there's a high possibility people will buy them. There's a lot of books out there that kind of written that way already, formulaic and paint by numbers.
4. Actors and AI (And James Marsters' sexy Spike as a Rock and Roller video)
I can see why Actors fear it - it's relatively easy to grab an actor's likeness and enhance it with AI or alter it, or have AI take over. I see it on Facebook and Instagram constantly.
Heck, James Marsters recently put out a music video of his band's song, Civilized Man, where he's playing the guitar shirtless, and looks 35 years of age. I'm willing to bet he used AI? Even though it comes with the disclaimer that this video used no digital effects. (So maybe not?) I wonder why he didn't do it while he was playing Spike? Whedon probably wouldn't let him? Or it never occurred to him? He really should do the Bruce Springsteen's "Fire" song in Spike get up.
( James Marsters playing Spike as a Rock and Roller in Civilized Man )
Proving that he'd have no problems coming back as Spike in the Buffy Reboot. Annoying me all the more with the missed opportunities. I really wanted rock star Spike. Even as just a cameo.
At the very least AI may wreck havoc on the plastic surgery industry.
It works better on film than plastic surgery does.
it's been a great few weeks in Oasis land <3
2026-05-22 08:09 pmBonus: Anais thinks her uncle is funny. ;__;
+ Speaking of the kids, here's how the comeback is going from their perspective:
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+ The reunion tour documentary has an official release date! And it's going to have JOINT INTERVIEWS, YOU GUYS. Liam and Noel in the same room, answering questions. Can you even fucking imagine. They haven't done one of those since 2005. Noel is going to laugh at all Liam's jokes and Liam is going to be SO SMUG about it. I'm going to see this IN A THEATER and I am going to dieeeeee.
+ Of course twitter asked Liam about this, and his response was:
People asking me what the documentary's like it's a ROMANTIC COMEDY with a bit of ROCK N ROLL
He later said that the romance would be between "us and the fans," but we know the truth. :')
+ And finally, this old clip I found of Liam at a gig singing I waited for a thousand years for you / to come and take me from behind.
Daily Happiness
2026-05-22 07:55 pm2. The weather is back to high 60s/low 70s after those couple days of heat we had earlier this week. I just checked the forecast and it looks like it'll stay that way for the next week or so at least.
3. I just happened to look at the calendar for next month and saw that my birthday is on a Friday, so I put in for that day and the Monday to give myself a four day weekend.
4. Where could Ollie be!?

quick signal boost for a local-to-me and worthy cause
2026-05-22 05:36 pmI know times are tight and there are a million worthy causes around right now, but if you happen to have some spare funds you'd like to toss at a good cause, this is a really good one and a really good time to donate. Every little bit helps.
(And if you're not in a position to donate, no shame and no judgment.)
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2026-05-22 07:40 pmSince we're heading into a holiday weekend, I'll call them on Tuesday, but I am not particularly hopeful that it will help. I called about the previous "you needed a referral" issue, was told that it should be easy to resubmit with the info that this was my PCP, was told they were doing that... and it changed nothing.
So I'm pretty well fucked, even if both biopsies come back as clear. If one or both don't... welp, guess I can wait for the melanoma to kill me, because I'm already basically a full paycheck in the hole by the time I pay for the shit they're already not covering, not even counting the few hundred I've had to shell out in the copays.
Right now I'm just very pissed off, and really am struggling to do any of the mildly responsible but low-stakes things that I was planning on. I don't want to reply to comments. I don't want to write book reviews. But I don't want to just sit here and keep being pissed off and anxious about it, either. >:/
I know I can't do anything about it until Tuesday, so I sort of want to just forget about it for a couple days, but I also know I won't.
friday later
2026-05-22 08:35 pm
The circle letters say, Memorial Day. I wasn't that crazy about the picture we were supposed to make at Paint and Sip today: a picture of a barn with an American flag hanging on it, poppies across the bottom. Then Chloe handed out the poem In Flanders Fields and after reading it I thought I'd try gluing that paper down and then paint around it instead. I turned the barn into an outdoor notice board and added a hill with graves on it, kept the poppies.
In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie,
In Flanders fields.
Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.
- by Lieutenant Colonel John McCrae
WWI. Lieutenant Colonel McCrae was a Canadian physician and wrote it after he lost one of his closest friends in battle. He noticed after his friend was buried that the poppies were growing close around his makeshift grave. From wiki: As with many of the most popular works of the First World War, it was written early in the conflict, before the romanticism of war turned to bitterness and disillusion for soldiers and civilians alike. War is so stupid. I cannot believe that our country is in another war.
*****

Another ears up morning for Rainy.
Book review: Pink Slime
2026-05-22 06:21 pmAuthor: Fernanda Trias
Translator: Heather Cleary
Genre: Literary fiction
Last night I finished book #18 from the “Women in Translation” rec list, which was Pink Slime by Fernanda Trias, translated from Spanish by Heather Cleary. Pink Slime is a dreamy nightmare of a novel set in the aftershocks of an ecological disaster as one woman struggles to hold onto her life.
Nothing is as it once was: society has been upended by the “red wind” that kills anyone caught in it; the narrator is divorced from the husband she first met in childhood; and she has left her job in journalism to work as a caretaker for a disabled young boy.
This is a reflective book; there is very little plot. It drifts between the narrator’s present, her memories of the past, and in some cases, a future-tense look at the next few minutes. She observes the ways the government tries to cover for the damage the red wind continues to do, and the way society continues to fracture. She continues to visit her ex-husband in the hospital, although his condition never changes. She continues to fight with her mother.
In some ways, Pink Slime is a story about someone trying to hold onto a life that is already gone. The narrator clings to the past, for obvious reasons—it was better than her present. And yet, nothing new can be made until she releases that hold.
The thing that will stick with me most about this book is the birds. In the narrator’s world, the birds have gone. Where, no one knows. It is a topic of frequent discussion among the townsfolk. Will the birds come back? It reminds of a line from a Florence + The Machine Song: “What if one day there’s no such thing as snow?” Ecological disaster brings with it a poignant grief. How do you explain birds to a child who’s never seen them but in picture books? What is lost for each of us when an animal or plant or phenomenon is destroyed?
I enjoyed the morose, grief-stricken mood of the book, but it does feel directionless at times in a way that’s not wholly captivating. I can’t say what I take away from it on the whole. I would be curious to read more from this author.
Recent Reading: Pink Slime
2026-05-22 06:20 pmLast night I finished book #18 from the “Women in Translation” rec list, which was Pink Slime by Fernanda Trias, translated from Spanish by Heather Cleary. Pink Slime is a dreamy nightmare of a novel set in the aftershocks of an ecological disaster as one woman struggles to hold onto her life.
Nothing is as it once was: society has been upended by the “red wind” that kills anyone caught in it; the narrator is divorced from the husband she first met in childhood; and she has left her job in journalism to work as a caretaker for a disabled young boy.
This is a reflective book; there is very little plot. It drifts between the narrator’s present, her memories of the past, and in some cases, a future-tense look at the next few minutes. She observes the ways the government tries to cover for the damage the red wind continues to do, and the way society continues to fracture. She continues to visit her ex-husband in the hospital, although his condition never changes. She continues to fight with her mother.
In some ways, Pink Slime is a story about someone trying to hold onto a life that is already gone. The narrator clings to the past, for obvious reasons—it was better than her present. And yet, nothing new can be made until she releases that hold.
The thing that will stick with me most about this book is the birds. In the narrator’s world, the birds have gone. Where, no one knows. It is a topic of frequent discussion among the townsfolk. Will the birds come back? It reminds of a line from a Florence + The Machine Song: “What if one day there’s no such thing as snow?” Ecological disaster brings with it a poignant grief. How do you explain birds to a child who’s never seen them but in picture books? What is lost for each of us when an animal or plant or phenomenon is destroyed?
I enjoyed the morose, grief-stricken mood of the book, but it does feel directionless at times in a way that’s not wholly captivating. I can’t say what I take away from it on the whole. I would be curious to read more from this author.
Another evening ripping DVDs.
2026-05-22 08:54 pmAlso some hot chocolate packets, which I'm definitely saving for later. Much later. After the next equinox later.
Heading out to grab everything also included a pit stop at the library, and it's a wonderful feeling to take over a dozen items out at a time. A very budget-friendly, accessible way to feel incredibly wealthy.
meme time!
2026-05-22 07:05 pmSpaceman In The Iron Mask
2026-05-22 07:54 pmStarquest Book 6. Spoilers ahead for the earlier books
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Spaceman In The Iron Mask
2026-05-22 07:54 pmStarquest Book 6. Spoilers ahead for the earlier books
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第五年第一百三十二天
2026-05-23 08:21 am艹 part 18
蔫, to wither; 蔬, vegetables; 蔷薇, rose ( pinyin )
https://www.mdbg.net/chinese/dictionary?cdqrad=140
语法
4.7 part 1 次, measure word for repeated actions
https://www.digmandarin.com/hsk-4-grammar
词汇
超过, to exceed/to surpass (pinyin in tags)
https://mandarinbean.com/new-hsk-4-word-list/
Guardian:
这白蔷薇的花语是纯洁的爱情, in the language of flowers white roses mean pure love
我跟你们说了多少次了, how many times have I told you guys
误差不会超过一个小时, a margin of error not exceeding an hour
Me:
你要种蔬菜还是蔷薇?
你已经几次超过了边界。

